Summer’s here and you know what that means…summer vacations with the family! For many, summer is the best time for vacation because school’s out, the weather is perfect, and everyone has more time on their hands. So whether you’re heading to the beach, the mountains, overseas, or simply visiting family out of state, it’s time to relax, reconnect, and make lasting memories.
While that sounds well and good, we all know that family vacations can be chaotic and stressful. A little planning goes a long way toward ensuring a restful and smooth trip. Whether you have an infant, toddler, preschooler, or older child, here are some tips to help you enjoy your summer break to the fullest.
Be Flexible
While you should definitely plan ahead, you have to build in some flexibility as well. So go ahead: book your lodging early, research kid-friendly activities, and map out your travel route. But in all that planning, don’t forget to stay flexible, as anything can derail your plans. Inclement weather, delayed flights, and even adjustments for nap times should be taken in stride.
Pack Smart
Just because you’re packing light doesn’t mean you have to skimp on the essentials. Rather, it’s more important to pack with purpose. Come up with a packing list several days in advance of your trip, and check off each item as you pack it, from clothing and medications to chargers and travel documents. Each child can have their own travel kit or bag filled with their favorite comfort item, toy, snacks, and coloring books. Always bring an extra set of clothes for the family, especially if you have a child who is in the process of potty training.
Set Realistic Expectations
As you know, a family vacation is much different than a solo or couples’ trip. You can’t hit every tourist attraction in a city like you did on a singles’ trips in your 20s. Choose a few highlights to hit and consider it a success if you get through those. It’s essential to keep your expectations realistic, as kids tend to misbehave when they’re overtired or overstimulated. Take time to enjoy each moment as it comes. Rushing will only lead to tears – for kids and parents!
Stick to a Routine
That being said, sticking to a routine will keep everything on track, and avoid confusion and chaos. Just remember that the routine could get sidelined at any time, which is why, as stated above, you should plan for a lot of flexibility. A routine is especially important when it comes to bedtimes and mealtimes. To prevent meltdowns, put your kids to bed at the same time each night, stick to a consistent mealtime, bring their favorite stuffed animal and a nightlight…these things will all help to keep a bit of structure in place.
Involve the Kids
Your kids will get more excited and cooperative about the trip if you involve them in the planning. They can vote on a destination and activities, and they can choose their favorite snacks for the plane or car ride. When you give little ones a sense of ownership, this reduces the likelihood of complaints while increasing engagement.
Prioritize Health and Safety
The last thing you want is for your trip to get cancelled, delayed, or cut short due to a preventable illness or injury. Keep the kids hydrated, and pack plenty of sunscreen, bug spray, and hand sanitizer. Don’t forget a basic first-aid kit. If you are traveling overseas, ask their pediatrician if there are any vaccinations they should get.
Make It Fun
Long drives or flights are tough on small children. Heck, even parents don’t enjoy this aspect of travel. Anticipate these delays and plan games, stories, and singalongs to keep them occupied. Download audiobooks or podcasts beforehand for school-aged kids.
Budget Wisely
You don’t have to spend a fortune on a vacation for your family to have a great time. Come up with a family-friendly budget beforehand and use it as a time to teach your kids the value of saving and spending. For example, you can give them an allowance to buy souvenirs or treats while in each destination.
In addition, look for free or low-cost attractions, such as public beaches, nature trails, and local events. Research discount passes for families in the city you are visiting so you can hit a museum or zoo for free or at least a reduced rate.
In conclusion, a family vacation doesn’t have to be stressful. A bit of forethought, patience, and flexibility can go a long way toward ensuring a seamless vacation with the kids.
